I didn't say either of those things were "cool". I didn't even mention gay sex specifically.
In answer to your questions: No. And no.
As for authoritarianism go's it's possible to have a closed border while letting fellow Whites do what they want to do within our own nations.
As for your last sentence, you're clearly living in a fantasy world.
We haven't even got to A yet and you're already fantasising about Z. 
I am an individual. I am strong enough to be an individual. I don't join groups gangs or cults. But you go and larp about muh Hitler and see how far that gets you in the public consciousness.
It's worth noting by the way that Andrew suggested this book club as a bunch of like minded people meeting up. And you have tried to take over the Scottish meet-up as being controlled by NA.
I suppose that leaves people to question, are they their own boss, or do they want to gave their self over to a pre-determined collective?